About a week ago, a neighbor living across my house told me that our newly rehabilitated roof had a lot of water on it. A LOT. The new drains were obviously clogged. Another neighbor climbed up and had to dismantle the drain-filter, and removed what looked like a bunch of leaves – and I went bananas. I went right into the old pattern of disaster, and will spare you all the scenarios that I made that “proved” to me that the situation was lethal.
I mailed the leader of the building firm with a complaint. No answer. I called, he told me he would look into it. Another neighbor delivered a complaint too.
Next day another yet another neighbor told me that he had seen the photo of the clog – and it was in fact not leaves, but “noses” from Maplewood.
When I was a child, we used to attach these seed to our noses.
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This was a symbol; somebody was thumbing their nose at me. Hm. That sounded like Blue – or Life. Or “my” process. That meant that this possible yearly clogging was season-conditioned, just a week or so.
The firm leader mailed us back and told us we had no case.
“TRUST”I heard, but I was back in convincing disaster mode – lost in spinning scenarios about how to “stand up to him, find a lawyer to have my “right” and all that fuss. I knew I was caught, but could not seem to free myself.
Another neighbor mailed him “ how irresponsible!”
I sensed I didn’t want to go there. I didn’t want to win any longer. I didn’t want to act out of that separated state of mind.And I prayed for help to see the situation – and his behaviour -differently…
Then I saw this photo by Ruby Julian on Facebook:
I was instantly transported into bliss. This is a Tortoise, perched on a rock, stretching its head toward the sky – and for me, the atmosphere in the image is one of melting in to Oneness. Gravity seems to be suspended – the animal balances between heaven and earth, and its reflection is crystal clear in the clear water.
In the shower ( where so many wonder-shifts happen) I KNEW: I do not want to see the leader like an antagonist. I knew he answered as he had because of something that had happened to him that made him stressed – and that this was not his true self.
I remembered how kind and patient he had been all the times I called him – and how he always had fixed things I did not like, fixed it so it was even better that before. I knew by his voice and manner that he loved his work – and this love and respect was reflected in his workers, who were like him – courteous, kind, excellent workers enjoying themselves.
So I wrote him a mail, describing how I had experienced him – knowing that what he wanted, was that all of us were pleased and content with the result. Himself included.
And sending it, I KNEW that all is well, whatever seem to happen.
No disaster mode.
I had a Skype sharing with Kit right after this, and found the terrified inner child who thought it was safe to be scared – it was a protection against being shocked, by being prepared of the worst. Kit listened while I talked to the child -“ I love you so much, I so understand why you think it is safe to expect the worst. You don’t need to be afraid any more – but it’s OK, if you choose it.”
Big release: how wonderful it was to hear that being scared was a choice – and that there was no judgment about it.
Our Skype session ended. In the last seconds, Kit exclaims, “Right now outside my window is a waterfall of noses – they spin to the ground! And there is a man with a high-pressure hose!”
TRUST
I can TRUST the process
I CAN TRUST the process. There may be dreadful energies/feelings in-between – but I will always find back to the state of utter surrender that the Tortoise expresses.
And the automatic judgment of those scared feelings and that disaster-prone child has gone